CHOICES

"Sorry, but I have no choice." I heard this when a couple quarreled. And the next day, they broke up.

"No choice lahhh..." From a teenager's mouth, and she is now still a nobody.

"I was forced to, i can't choose." From my mouth. The next thing i thought of was : how dare I?

Well now look back the title, choice, with an 's'. Simply because choices are plural, they are everywhere. Some invisible, some not. Take the intention to find yourself chances, that give you more choices.

Even when you're walking on a street, a dog poos on you, actually you have a choice, that is you should have be alert for happenings around. Even when parents scold you , give you pressure, you have a choice, just convince them with your consistency.

Look things at wider perspective, you'll find chances allll around you. They are as precious as gold, because they can change your life :) And you'll find life is so INTERESTING of chances choices :D

If you fail, don't give an excuse for not having any chances. You are giving away them, letting go of them. Just admit you are not good enough, you are not up to it YET.

Self Motivation

People who are unable to motivate themselves must be content with mediocrity, no matter how impressive their other talents. -Andrew Carnegie-

How deep do you know about self-motivation? How do you find yourself need motivation?

In fact, I know that i shouldn't always desperate for ppl's guidance. In life, sometimes i'll just have to TRUST myself, HAVE FAITH in myself, be MY listener, and GIVE STRENGTH to myself :)

Not to say I'm ego, but INDEPENDANCE is the ability to stand up myself. Not to say i'm too proud of myself, CONFIDENCE is something that comes naturally with my positivity :D

Days by days, it has become a habit for you (not everyone) to post negative feelings, to complain, to express anger. Do you know how much it affects when these negative things spread out??WORDS HAVE INVISIBLE POWER. Social networks are 'SOCIAL' and there are no private spaces for you. That feelings may reach whoever see it.

Before you feel sad, sorrow, or unfair, think of those poors, think of how blissful we are to live under a completely furnished house, for some even do not own a roof . This is one kind of self motivation. In the sense that it makes you feel better, feel grateful.

Self motivation is not all about talking, consoling yourself. You must have a cause that can inspire you to give your best even in the facing of difficulties. It can make you do the seemingly impossible things, and boost your spirit to the max, no , is above your boundary :)

However, cause is abstract so DARE TO DREAM , to concrete your cause. Imagining how successful you will be, thinking how awesome are you in the future, having how fantastic family.!

Next, write down your goals, lock your target, shoot your energy to achieve it !! :D

BE HUNGRY, don't easily get satisfied with current achievement, always seek for more more and MOREEE.

THINK POSITIVE, throw all bad feelings aside, turn them into a wave of motivation and be your own superman/woman :)

CHOOSE HIGHWAY OR HILLY ROADS? Keep the answer, remind yourself, success comes only after effort :)

THAT'S WHAT WE ARE BORN FOR ! START A NEW LIFE OF YOURS, START TO BE POSITIVE, MAKE THE WORLD A BETTER PLACE :) !!!

Malacca

RED BUILDING RED BUILDING !!

How excited was the going-to-be-17-girl when she saw thiiiisssss!!!

The happiest moment was not walking around, but the baba nyonya food! (should have taken the photos) Though the food is spicy, still i LOVE it :)

Two families sitting around a table, chatting, enjoying the genuine pineapple juice , aahhhh PARADISE :)

Intricate carving of the traditional cabinets were mesmerizing , hope to own it :( but too bad we didn't have much time on that :O