25 February 2012

渺小

踏入寺庙的那一刻,香烟将我罩起,四周迷茫,钟声将我惊起,还我清静的心灵。一尊一尊佛像摆在眼前,站在规模宏大的这里,还有高高伫立的大柱旁,闻着木香,摸着龙雕,我觉得好渺小。

将一切知识掏尽,与无边际的大海相比,微不足道。将所有情感映在脸上,与无限好的夕阳相较,更加微妙。

有些人把自己看得太重,又或是的给予别人过重的寄望,撑着唯我走天下的豪气。当他们回头望时,才发现自己的倒影不过是随波逐流罢了。

自己的消失及存在,改变不了万物生态的延续。自己的抱怨,改变不了自身的伤感。自己的仇恨,改变不了世界的规律。很多时候,个人力量改变不了什么。

与其钻牛角尖,冀望他人为我改变,不如学习改变自己,让自己过得更快乐。快乐,得先学习消除心中仇恨,减少埋怨,以正面思维面对生活的困苦。把心中的棘荆磨成动力的泉源;将人生的悲痛化为心境的成长剂;将日子的低潮烤成生动的热情。

惬意地呼吸,自我地漫步,陶醉地弹琴,忘了我忘了自己,聆听内心的呻吟。茫茫宇宙,自己不过是颗尘埃。过得痛苦不如鼓起勇气制造快乐,让心成长,让快乐滋长。

懂得放下面具的人,并非豁达,他们领悟世界的广泛。懂得放下包袱的人,并非劳累,他们看见来时路。懂得歇下自尊的人,并非颓废,他们看见自身渺小。

我们绝对没资格与天体拼在一起相比。唯有内心的强大,才可以在这天体持续呼吸;唯有健康的信心,才可以在这天体生存。

















回忆

小丫头,绑着辫子,跳啊跳,不觉似地长大了。

成长,我都形容它为贪婪的时光机。把我美好时光无情掠走, 留下的仅有回忆。
而回忆,到底藏在哪里。
许多过去,遗憾无法回到从前。许多以前,感叹逝去的曾经。就因回忆里的大小细节,才有今天的我。
林花谢了春红,太匆匆,无奈朝来寒雨晚来风。就因会失去,回忆特显珍贵。相片会不见,号码会更换,地址也会变,唯一不变的回忆,才是无价之宝。细心品尝,才明白回忆里袋着的香气,可宁我之神,旷我之怡。















05 June 2011

CHOICES

"Sorry, but I have no choice." I heard this when a couple quarreled. And the next day, they broke up.
"No choice lahhh..." From a teenager's mouth, and she is now still a nobody.
"I was forced to, i can't choose." From my mouth. The next thing i thought of was : how dare I?

Well now look back the title, choice, with an 's'. Simply because choices are plural, they are everywhere. Some invisible, some not. Take the intention to find yourself chances, that give you more choices.
Even when you're walking on a street, a dog poos on you, actually you have a choice, that is you should have be alert for happenings around. Even when parents scold you , give you pressure, you have a choice, just convince them with your consistency.
Look things at wider perspective, you'll find chances allll around you. They are as precious as gold, because they can change your life :) And you'll find life is so INTERESTING of chances choices :D

If you fail, don't give an excuse for not having any chances. You are giving away them, letting go of them. Just admit you are not good enough, you are not up to it YET.

29 May 2011

Self Motivation


People who are unable to motivate themselves must be content with mediocrity, no matter how impressive their other talents. -Andrew Carnegie-

How deep do you know about self-motivation? How do you find yourself need motivation?
In fact, I know that i shouldn't always desperate for ppl's guidance. In life, sometimes i'll just have to TRUST myself, HAVE FAITH in myself, be MY listener, and GIVE STRENGTH to myself :)

Not to say I'm ego, but INDEPENDANCE is the ability to stand up myself. Not to say i'm too proud of myself, CONFIDENCE is something that comes naturally with my positivity :D

Days by days, it has become a habit for you (not everyone) to post negative feelings, to complain, to express anger. Do you know how much it affects when these negative things spread out??WORDS HAVE INVISIBLE POWER. Social networks are 'SOCIAL' and there are no private spaces for you. That feelings may reach whoever see it.

Before you feel sad, sorrow, or unfair, think of those poors, think of how blissful we are to live under a completely furnished house, for some even do not own a roof . This is one kind of self motivation. In the sense that it makes you feel better, feel grateful.

Self motivation is not all about talking, consoling yourself. You must have a cause that can inspire you to give your best even in the facing of difficulties. It can make you do the seemingly impossible things, and boost your spirit to the max, no , is above your boundary :)
However, cause is abstract so DARE TO DREAM , to concrete your cause. Imagining how successful you will be, thinking how awesome are you in the future, having how fantastic family.!
Next, write down your goals, lock your target, shoot your energy to achieve it !! :D
BE HUNGRY, don't easily get satisfied with current achievement, always seek for more more and MOREEE.
THINK POSITIVE, throw all bad feelings aside, turn them into a wave of motivation and be your own superman/woman :)
CHOOSE HIGHWAY OR HILLY ROADS? Keep the answer, remind yourself, success comes only after effort :)


THAT'S WHAT WE ARE BORN FOR ! START A NEW LIFE OF YOURS, START TO BE POSITIVE, MAKE THE WORLD A BETTER PLACE :) !!!

22 May 2011

Malacca

RED BUILDING RED BUILDING !!
How excited was the going-to-be-17-girl when she saw thiiiisssss!!!

The happiest moment was not walking around, but the baba nyonya food! (should have taken the photos) Though the food is spicy, still i LOVE it :)

Two families sitting around a table, chatting, enjoying the genuine pineapple juice , aahhhh PARADISE :)

Intricate carving of the traditional cabinets were mesmerizing , hope to own it :( but too bad we didn't have much time on that :O